Many people consider orgasms to be the pinnacle of sexual ecstasy. When having an orgasm, the perineal muscles, anal sphincter, and reproductive organs contract rhythmically while the body releases tension. When males reach orgasm, they usually ejaculate, while females have vaginal wall contractions. Females may also ejaculate during sexual activity or while reaching an orgasm. Besides its main purpose, experiencing ultimate pleasure during an act of love, orgasms may have many health benefits.
Orgasms improve the quality of your sleep. Researchers have found that women who reached orgasm during their sexual activities had a better sleeping outcome. Orgasms through masturbation often lead to better sleep quality and decrease the time taken to fall asleep. During an orgasm, the body produces the hormone oxytocin. Oxytocin is good for reducing anxiety, lowering the risk of potential heart diseases, and preventing cancer, especially ovarian cancer. The glowing skin effect is not a product of your imagination. Regular sexual activity and orgasms lead to radiant and healthy skin because oxytocin reduces cortisol. Sexually active women are more likely subjected to normal menstrual cycles, unlike women who have sex less frequently.
Different Stimulation Results in Different Types of Orgasms
Women can experience several types of orgasms. The way they feel can vary from person to person.
Clitoral orgasm occurs with the stimulation of the clitoris. This type of orgasm is often felt on the surface of your body like a tingly feeling. Vaginal orgasms are more intense and since the vagina is deeper in the body, this orgasm occurs when a person penetrates the vagina because the vaginal walls will pulse. Anal orgasms will cause you an intense need to pee, but as a result, you will experience an intense orgasm around the anal sphincter. Combo orgasms are something most women dream of when engaging themselves in sexual activity. These explosive, movie-style orgasms occur when stimulating women’s G-spot and the clitoris at the same time.
Other parts of your body such as ears, nipples, neck, elbows and knees are erogenous zones, which means kissing and playing with can cause plausible reactions.
How Can I Reach My Maximum Orgasm?
There is a high percentage of women who still haven’t experienced an orgasm. According to one phenomenon, women must be in love to reach an orgasm. Still, there are some tips on how to reach an orgasm you may want to consider.
Feel the Power of Sex Toys
Sadly, it’s not always easy to get to the big O. If you don’t usually orgasm during sex, there is always the option of solo play. Buying sex toys is a self-care investment be it vibrating eggs, dildos, or vibrators. When it comes to sexual pleasures every woman has unique preferences, and adult toys can be the ultimate way to satisfy all of them.
Vibrating love eggs are among the best sex toys on the market, because of their multiple purposes. Besides being perfect for solo play, a remote control love egg can offer plenty of pleasure in various ways. The egg can be placed near your G-spot while your partner has the remote power in his hands. If you’re in a distant love relationship, you can still have intense orgasms when you use a remote control love egg to take you to the highest peaks of pleasure.
The vibrating egg’s main purpose is to be inserted into the vagina, near the G-spot, but it can also be used for stimulating the clitoris. For greater pleasure in both cases, use a lubricant. Increase your excitement by taking it with you in public places. Love eggs’ discrete design and quiet vibration will be perfect for having plausible reactions wherever you go, in a crowded club, at your favourite restaurant, or in the cinema. Being peak pleasure providers, vibrating eggs are also a brilliant way for exercising your kegel muscles.
Dildos and vibrators are another way for achieving pleasure on a daily basis. You can start with a small dildo and work your way up to a larger one. You can have a safe anal play with an anal dildo with a flared base. For couples interested in pegging, a dildo strap allows your partner to do the hip-thrusting while you relax. Vibrators are one of the most reliable sex toys out there. Depending on your sexual preferences and your body needs, you can opt between rabbit vibrators for combo orgasms or clitoral suction vibrators for your sensitive clit.
Spice Up Your Foreplay
Any sexual activity that occurs before intercourse is referred to as foreplay. Intercourse does not have to be the grand finale or even on the menu if you don’t want it to be. On the other hand, reducing the time spent on foreplay could negatively affect your sexual climax. Think of it as a psychological and physical trigger that improves the overall enjoyment and engagement in your sexual activity. But, how to start?
Sexting can be an easy and promising start. Texting your partner what are you going to do to them, how hot are the things they do, or that you’re are thinking about them would undoubtedly stir things up south of the border. You can spice things up a bit by using adult sex toys. While you’re having dinner in a public place you can insert a vibrating egg into your vagina, while having your partner the remote control in his hands on the other side of the table.
You can also set a foreplay mood by lighting candles, putting some music on, dimming the light, putting on your partner’s favourite lingerie on you and striptease for them. Touch has great power, and a sensual massage can do wonders for the body and mind.
Pull out the oil, and use a massage candle for setting an extreme Fifty Shades mood that does double purpose. Begin at their feet and work your way up, being sure to touch your partner’s pleasurable pressure points and linger where they desire.
Increase Orgasms’ Intensity with Cuddling and Kissing
The love part of sex is often forgotten because we live in a world characterized by one-night hookups and inebriated adventures. We hug and kiss our partners before, during, and after sex for a biological purpose. Oxytocin, commonly known as the “love” hormone, is released as a result of these acts of affection and bonding. Studies show that this hormone is responsible for the intensity of our orgasms. As a result, before both oral and penetrative intercourse, make sure to kiss and cuddle with your partner as much as possible. The natural buildup will aid you in achieving a much more powerful orgasm. This way, orgasms can be as intense and pleasurable for both sexes, even if women don’t have them as easily as males.
Try Female-Friendly Sex Positions
The best way to reach intense orgasms during sexual activity is to involve female-friendly sex positions. These positions maximize the stimulation of the clitoris, the G-spot, or both. The woman on top is a sex position that provides maximum stimulation of the G-spot, given the angle of the penis. You can move your body in such a direction that stimulates the clitoris. The rear entry position isn’t ideal for clitoral stimulation, but it is ideal for G-spot penetration and stimulation. During intercourse, both of you can reach under and rub the clitoris. Sitting on your partner’s lap enables deep penetration as well as nice clitoral stimulation. It also offers a great deal of intimacy. Couples unwilling to try new things enjoy the missionary pose. But when it comes to women and orgasms it’s the wrong one. It’s difficult to stimulate the G-spot when your male partner is on top unless he presses his pelvis into you. Don’t be afraid to tell your partner whether you enjoy it or not to avoid unpleasant situations and have mutual pleasure.
